tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post8207661481650427864..comments2023-10-28T07:19:04.800-05:00Comments on The Glamazon Chronicles: Healthy?OG, The Original Glamazonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17041450250560458185noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-48357179650752334442008-11-05T09:13:00.000-06:002008-11-05T09:13:00.000-06:00I really needed to read this. Good post.I really needed to read this. Good post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-44294421580132603812008-11-05T08:51:00.000-06:002008-11-05T08:51:00.000-06:00Oh...and I love that last bit about the man and hi...Oh...and I love that last bit about the man and his OE and meatloaf. HILARIOUS!!!!Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12183428153289658977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-63003607189967818452008-11-05T08:49:00.000-06:002008-11-05T08:49:00.000-06:00It took me a while to realize that only my husband...It took me a while to realize that only my husband and I can dictate what is "healthy" for us. When we first got married it bothered me (only a little) that I wasn't a great cook...okay, not even a good cook, but that was okay with him. We threw all "rules" aside and just allowed ourselves to set our own standard. So he cooks and I like to fix things around the house...Different? Maybe...but it Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12183428153289658977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-76713393071661966202008-11-04T22:48:00.000-06:002008-11-04T22:48:00.000-06:00Again, I loved this post, and most of the comments...Again, I loved this post, and most of the comments are right on time also!<BR/><BR/>Very encouraging.<BR/><BR/>@SG You are so right! Sometimes the husband just needs to tend to "things" lol<BR/><BR/>@bc It's all about the diversion, we wouldn't want you throwing up!<BR/><BR/>@Keith Yes, It is all about knowing yourself, you can't love anybody else if you don't love Somebodies Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13829397543895002523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-1622163284048118642008-11-04T22:10:00.000-06:002008-11-04T22:10:00.000-06:00My late aunt and uncle had a weird relationship. S...My late aunt and uncle had a weird relationship. She seemed so difficult and stubborn, while he seemed patient and softly persistent. They never seemed to agree, he never won, and never cared. It was like entertainment for him. I thought of them when I read, "one person’s healthy is another person wildly dysfunctional."<BR/><BR/>You know when I meet a couple that says they've been together 30 SLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06730433154344252585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-75048339196393529162008-11-04T16:41:00.000-06:002008-11-04T16:41:00.000-06:00@SF- I was somewhat of a late bloomer or late to n...@SF- I was somewhat of a late bloomer or late to notice I had bloomed. I get you on working through that! <BR/><BR/>-OGOG, The Original Glamazonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17041450250560458185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-40872490070740996362008-11-04T16:28:00.000-06:002008-11-04T16:28:00.000-06:00Great post OG,I really dig what you're saying abou...Great post OG,<BR/><BR/>I really dig what you're saying about being in a healthy relationship and knowing what is expected of each other before things spiral out of control. <BR/><BR/>For the most part I know what I want in a relationship, but because of so much past abuse, drama and confusion I have a terrible time communicating what I want out of a relationship.<BR/><BR/>It is so bad hat I get Somebodies Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13829397543895002523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-25599377498607951962008-11-04T15:38:00.000-06:002008-11-04T15:38:00.000-06:00@All I hope tomorrow is a GOOD DAY!! @SG- You are ...<B> @All I hope tomorrow is a GOOD DAY!! </B><BR/><BR/>@SG- You are right. As long as you two coordinate you should do JUST fine! Or at least I hope you do. <BR/> <BR/>@Bus Chick- hey you!! Keep it positive, our boy gotta pull it off. You should have a drink or five, I know I will when I make it to the house. I’m so glad I’m happy too!! <BR/> <BR/>@Keith- Thanks! And yes you gotta know you!OG, The Original Glamazonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17041450250560458185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-3317948263526454592008-11-04T14:30:00.000-06:002008-11-04T14:30:00.000-06:00How true, OG. I realized a while ago that I'm not ...How true, OG. I realized a while ago that I'm not all that clear on what I want,but I sure know what I don't want. Thanks for the insight, this has given me a few things to think about.♥ CG ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/06312573343401136201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-78531791708167677162008-11-04T14:09:00.000-06:002008-11-04T14:09:00.000-06:00Oh an another thing- Healthy is a standard we set ...Oh an another thing- Healthy is a standard we set when we finnally realize who we are and what we need. Another word for that is "Standards"...We have to set standards and a few requirements.<BR/>Like you said...If you like to get your laugh on...you can't be with a<BR/>dour humorless man.Keithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17325582825431855883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-57298318141756499082008-11-04T14:06:00.000-06:002008-11-04T14:06:00.000-06:00OG- You said something that really resonated with ...OG- You said something that really resonated with me...About knowing yourself. Most people don't know themselves and their partner doesn't know him/her self either when they get in relationships. All they know is that they know they like what they see at the time. That's why so many relationships implode seemingly overnight...<BR/><BR/>(The love story I've been writing in Escapades recently dealsKeithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17325582825431855883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-56305936806431527132008-11-04T13:29:00.000-06:002008-11-04T13:29:00.000-06:00I completely agree that what is considered healthy...I completely agree that what is considered healthy varies from couple to couple. "Society" can sanction or prevent certain activities (defining who gets to be married, for example), but they don't get to decide what makes people happy. That said, I happen to think there are certain basic requirements for a healthy relationship: that both people know what they want, are respected, and have their Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-423910539157000916.post-19043634971193130842008-11-04T11:46:00.000-06:002008-11-04T11:46:00.000-06:00Healthy is whatever works for the two of you ! You...Healthy is whatever works for the two of you ! <BR/><BR/>You often now have women whom are the breadwinners & house husbands that tend to the "family", and I just love when it's coordinated.<BR/><BR/>Happy Election Day !<BR/><BR/>T.Sister Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14548430561166039221noreply@blogger.com